auroraparadox: The tricky part is figuring out what that is.
It is really quite simple, and you could have saved yourself a lot of time had you taken advice given. You are still, by your description, going about it piecemeal. Here is the way to do it -- but you MUST start from a fresh install... do not skip this step, because everything must be fresh to eliminate possible errors that have crept in from previous attempts. The following may sound convoluted, but it really isn't, and it will save you time in the long run:
1. Re-install the game completely virgin.
No mods, no fixes... nothing.
2. Uninstall DDrawFix (some systems don't like it, even though the latest GOG version installs it by default)
3. Play the tutorial. No crashes? Go to 4. Crashes? Post back.
4. Install DDRAWFIX
5. Play the tutorial. No crashes? Go to 6. Crashes? Uninstall DDrawFix; go to 6.
6. Install BG1UB
7. Play the tutorial. No crashes? Go to 8. Crashes? BG1UB needs close attention.
8. Install BGQE
9. Play the tutorial. No crashes? Go to 10. Crashes? BGQE needs close attention.
10. Install BG1TWEAKS
11. Play the tutorial. No crashes? Go to 12. Crashes? BG1TWeaks needs close attention.
12. Install the Widescreen mod --
read the readme! 13. Play the tutorial. No crashes? Go to 14. Crashes? You issue is with the widescreen mod.
14. Install TWM_GUI
15. Play the tutorial. No crashes? Play the game. Crashes... I doubt it by this point.