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Naturally we take a risk anytime we go into a relationship, I wasn't telling the OP to never love because it can, in fact, hurt worse than you can imagine. What I was saying is entering a relationship (or as some of the members here seem to only care about, having sex) is not a decision that is magically divorced from risk / reward analysis. I know some of you are making a joke, but for the rest of you kids out there it seems pretty clear that the OP cares for the girl in question, therefore telling him to simply have casual sex is a recipe for disaster! Sex is important in any romantic relationship, granted, but it's not a real relationship if that's all there is to it. Despite the OP's young age, he does seem to already realize that. I hope the rest of you someday learn that women are not simply more realistic fleshlites.

All I can say is, if you actually deeply care for her and suspect that she does for you, then right now is a time when you should put the brakes on. I really hope that you two can still maintain some form of relationship in the interim, and I can say that it's not impossible that you could pursue romance again in the future, but the bottom line is you seem fully aware that you can't afford to destroy the opportunity that is your education for her. So don't. That means you shouldn't hurt each other over something that is clearly doomed from the outset.
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djdarko: You sort of skimped on the details about her, does she realize that you're moving away soon? Is she the same age as you etc.?

First, make sure that she knows you're moving away soon, and if she still wants to go for it, make sure to bring condoms.

You shouldn't really have anything to feel guilty about as long as you are honest with her.
This answer is simple, concise and says what needs to be said. Summer between high school and college is often one of the best time of one's life. Enjoy it.
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corawesome2: Hmm, Could you give me a simple explanation of what a cenobite is?

You think that's bad?, My hands still hurt after Dj practice, and she's a hard lady to please. So yes, no one left "happy"
Almost got carpal tunnel....
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tinyE: These are Cenobites, and they will show you the ultimate in pleasure.........and pain.
I liked the cop from Inferno.
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Fenixp: What he said. My first big relationship made me happy, made me sad, made me increasingly more angry, broke me, and trough that, made me stronger then I was before. In the end tho, it's you who's in that situation and it's you who sees most of the possible outcomes.
You are correct, it's your heartbreaks as well as your achievements that make you up as a person.
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Fenixp: What he said. My first big relationship made me happy, made me sad, made me increasingly more angry, broke me, and trough that, made me stronger then I was before. In the end tho, it's you who's in that situation and it's you who sees most of the possible outcomes.
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corawesome2: You are correct, it's your heartbreaks as well as your achievements that make you up as a person.
No more talking about it, go check her temp.
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corawesome2: You are correct, it's your heartbreaks as well as your achievements that make you up as a person.
No I'm not correct, I'm a random guy on the internet. What works for me might not work for you.

If you decide to go trough with it tho, yours truly have made a topic for favourite sexual position for inspiration purposes!
Post edited May 13, 2014 by Fenixp
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tinyE: These are Cenobites, and they will show you the ultimate in pleasure.........and pain.
Look like something out of a resident evil meets starcraft zergs/ some random aliens thing.

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FirestormMk3: Naturally we take a risk anytime we go into a relationship, I wasn't telling the OP to never love because it can, in fact, hurt worse than you can imagine. What I was saying is entering a relationship (or as some of the members here seem to only care about, having sex) is not a decision that is magically divorced from risk / reward analysis. I know some of you are making a joke, but for the rest of you kids out there it seems pretty clear that the OP cares for the girl in question, therefore telling him to simply have casual sex is a recipe for disaster! Sex is important in any romantic relationship, granted, but it's not a real relationship if that's all there is to it. Despite the OP's young age, he does seem to already realize that. I hope the rest of you someday learn that women are not simply more realistic fleshlites.

All I can say is, if you actually deeply care for her and suspect that she does for you, then right now is a time when you should put the brakes on. I really hope that you two can still maintain some form of relationship in the interim, and I can say that it's not impossible that you could pursue romance again in the future, but the bottom line is you seem fully aware that you can't afford to destroy the opportunity that is your education for her. So don't. That means you shouldn't hurt each other over something that is clearly doomed from the outset.
I am debating on showing her this thread. As that way it would be easier for me to explain to her my feelings, even though she does know most of them
Post edited May 13, 2014 by corawesome2
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tinyE: These are Cenobites, and they will show you the ultimate in pleasure.........and pain.
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corawesome2: Look like something out of a resident evil meets starcraft zergs/ some random aliens thing.
Stab that bearded clam with your pork sword

A pork sword got me my star.
Post edited May 13, 2014 by pimpmonkey2382
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corawesome2: Hmm, Could you give me a simple explanation of what a cenobite is?

You think that's bad?, My hands still hurt after Dj practice, and she's a hard lady to please. So yes, no one left "happy"
Almost got carpal tunnel....
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tinyE: These are Cenobites, and they will show you the ultimate in pleasure.........and pain.
DON"T OPEN THE BOX
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mqstout: This answer is simple, concise and says what needs to be said. Summer between high school and college is often one of the best time of one's life. Enjoy it.
The thing about best time of one's life, they are really not, Most people say Highschool was the best time of their life, well my highschool experience was crap. unrespecting teachers and classmates who weren't focused on learning or teaching.
However, I suppose you have a point. but any time can be the best time.

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pimpmonkey2382: No more talking about it, go check her temp.
Huh?
who's temp, The dead hooker?,
She's probably in rigor mortis by now seeing as she was 3 dollar friday hooker at the hooker bar.
Post edited May 13, 2014 by corawesome2
For me, elementary and middle school sucked, but everything since high school has been awesome except for a few things in my life which sucked more than a prostitute with no money but other than that, awesome.
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Fenixp: No I'm not correct, I'm a random guy on the internet. What works for me might not work for you.

If you decide to go trough with it tho, yours truly have made a topic for favourite sexual position for inspiration purposes!
True, what works for you may not work for me.
Also Shameless plug in for the win, i am sure this thread will make me laugh, personally i like the hamburger, where you eat a hamburger and go to sleep. yes i just came up with that, witty, no, but eh.
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mqstout: This answer is simple, concise and says what needs to be said. Summer between high school and college is often one of the best time of one's life. Enjoy it.
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corawesome2: The thing about best time of one's life, they are really not, Most people say Highschool was the best time of their life, well my highschool experience was crap. unrespecting teachers and classmates who weren't focused on learning or teaching.
However, I suppose you have a point. but any time can be the best time.

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pimpmonkey2382: No more talking about it, go check her temp.
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corawesome2: Huh?
who's temp, The dead hooker?,
She's probably in rigor mortis by now seeing as she was 3 dollar friday hooker at the hooker bar.
No not the hooker. The one who wants you, go throw your log on the fire.
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pimpmonkey2382: Stab that bearded clam with your pork sword

A pork sword got me my star.
Hahaha, Hmm what if it's not a bearded clam.

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pimpmonkey2382: For me, elementary and middle school sucked, but everything since high school has been awesome except for a few things in my life which sucked more than a prostitute with no money but other than that, awesome.
That's good to hear, there is still hope.
Post edited May 13, 2014 by corawesome2
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pimpmonkey2382: Stab that bearded clam with your pork sword

A pork sword got me my star.
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corawesome2: Hahaha, Hmm what if it's not a bearded clam.

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pimpmonkey2382: For me, elementary and middle school sucked, but everything since high school has been awesome except for a few things in my life which sucked more than a prostitute with no money but other than that, awesome.
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corawesome2: That's good to hear, there is still hope.
Take a stab anyway.