dtgreene: No, if a person happens to not conform to society's binary gender, the person should be supported, not bullied for being different. Furthermore, the "help" you seem to be mentioning sounds a lot like conversion therapy, which has been proven to be harmful (sometimes even fatal); there is a reason that some US states have passed laws banning it.
Yeah, lately all manner of persons happen to "not conform to society's ANYTHING", not only gender. Hence riots, burning, beating people up, terrorist activity booming, etc. The very same system which feeds/lives/pampers them, from which they ask to be "adopted" or "be equal inside it", they long to see it undone and torn apart, striving with all of their powers towards that paranoid goal, advocates of chaos that they are. Nowadays, it is actually the minorities bullying society, bullying the system and bullying the norm, while happily dangerously proclaiming "love", "peace" and "equality" for facade, in the process. "You reap what you sow", as they say. People getting bugged and annoyed, disregarded and disrespected by the very same people yelling for respect and equality, leads to some very unpredictable actions. Brexit and Trump win is only the beginning. Keep up the good work; which is, enraging others to the point of supporting political options that they would never even consider in the first place, had they been left in peace. Hillary's defeat taught you nothing... Not *you* specifically, generally, i am talking.
Why do you need to reprogram and replace the entire thing? Aren't you the ones who say: "Coexist", "Live and let live", etc? Be honest and STRAIGHTforward, or don't. And why on earth do you condone and defend terrorist activity and anti-human faiths, all while claiming ignorantly in the process that all religions are one and the same and all must cease to exist? You don't favor one and say "i am against them all"; or, you don't hate one and say "i hate them all", because, in all due honesty, this is "false advertising", people!